Grace in Small Things

I read a lot of blogs and have noticed that the authors of many of my favorites have started this thing called "Grace in Small Things." Basically it's a take on Oprah's grateful journal, where you make a list each day of the things for which you're thankful. 

Last night was rough; arguing is never a pleasant activity especially when it's about something that simple communication and discussion would have solved ages ago. Things are much better today, and as usual I end up learning something from this latest exchange. I still have to insist on better communication, and I'm pretty sure I won't ever stop being persistent in trying to bring truths, thoughts and emotions to the surface. It's the only way a relationship can survive. However, I think I could probably approach this in a different manner than I have been; be more gentle, less confrontational. This is something to ponder, indeed.

Every time Steve and I go through a period like this, I end up with a deeper understanding of myself and our relationship. This is a good thing, I think, though obviously I would much rather discover these things only during happy times, but sometimes you have to sludge through the muck to reach the best revelations. 

And so this evening I suppose I'm feeling particularly grateful, and I think it's time to reflect -- or at least identify -- the things that make me feel this way. So here's my first stab at Grace in Small Things:

1. Steak and onions on the grill

2. A house that is becoming cozier by the day

3. Forgiveness

4. My future brother-in-law, for letting me borrow his car next week.

5. Family -- a brother I'm proud of, a cousin I can relate to, a momma and poppa who love me fiercely. 

Yes. Yes. This is nice.